"Patrimony" by Philip Roth

There is something sad, something utterly painful about book tributes to fathers. When reading Wiesel’s “Night”, Franzen’s “My Father’s Brain” or Roth’s “Patrimony”, one comes to grips with a difficult reality, of the unnatural heart ache and grief that accompany aging and what they do in the mean time to the father-son relationship.

“Patrimony” offers a glimpse of this aging, of the deterioration of the body. As one reads, one physically partakes into the burden of loosing a loved one, of facing the difficult decisions of what comes next, of recalling memories, of learning to struggle, of the heartbreaking doctor appointments…Philip Roth never holds back. He doesn’t protect from the sorrow, or grief. He tells his life’s story with honesty and shameless openness that requires not only brilliant clarity, but also the strength of love, love of the kind passed down from a good father to a worthy son.

This is a difficult book with an extraordinary writing and should be considered by anyone who has, is or will ever care for an aging parent.

- by Simon Cleveland